Do It Without Being Asked

Let me start by saying that I am by no means a perfect husband. But I try to be the best I can be and what God expects of me as a husband and father. It took me several years, but I figured out something tthe other day while I had time to think during a vacuuming session. I contribute to the household by cleaning bathrooms, cooking (sometimes), and cleaning the kitchen (all the time) and vacuuming. However, I must admit that I complain about it and for the first six and a half years of marriage, Becky has had to remind me to do it.

Recently, she has confessed that she would just like for me to do it without her asking. I heard her say it.......I am an educated adult, so I understood it.......but it really never sunk in to my thick skull. One of Becky's love languages is "acts of service". Although I am tired and don't feel like doing chores after a long work week, I know it means alot to Becky. Take a moment and do something nice for your spouse and see if it makes him/her smile. Even if they don't smile, it's OK, just be selfless today. I have made a personal conviction to get back to my old selfless personality.

Getting Home Today: I actually stayed at work until 11:00 pm last night. I got an email from my boss when I got to school and I called Becky at 7:45 am to communicate early so she wasn't blind sided later in the day. Becky was incredibly understanding and has really been a great support. The life of an administrator can be challenging on a spouse because it is especially unpredictable. Thanks Beck! I love you!